The best “either-or” questions for fun game nights, dates, etc.

“Either-or” questions: From funny to profound

“Either ... or” questions are – in addition to classics like “" and "” – the ideal party game. Because they bring all participants into conversation with ease, they range from silly to philosophical, and you don't need a game board or cards.

This is how the “either-or” game works

The “either-or” game is very easy and quickly explained. Because the principle is already in the name. You are asked an “either-or” question and have to answer it. How you answer an “either-or” question is up to you. You can either give a clear answer and choose one of the two options or explain to your fellow players why the choice is impossible for you.

You can answer briefly or explain your decision in detail, take turns asking the person to your right or appoint a game leader to read out all the questions.

The best “either-or” questions – from funny to profound

So that you can find the right questions for your event, we have sorted our favorite “either-or” questions for you. There are funny questions, questions for (first) dates, for couples and extreme questions that get under your skin. Let's go!

• Funny “either/or” questions
• Interesting “either/or” questions
• “Either-or” questions for the (first) date
• “Either-or” questions for couples
• Extreme “either-or” questions

Funny “either/or” questions

• Always running backwards or always turning in circles?
• Wearing a mustache forever or never being allowed to cut your hair?
• Never eat sweets again or have to sneeze every time you eat?
• Always whisper or always scream for a year?
• Be covered in sticky ketchup forever or never be allowed to shower again?
• Be friends with a giant penguin or a tiny giraffe?
• Comb your hair with a fork every day or wear shoes made of broccoli?
• Have to imitate a chicken or dance like a robot every time you speak?
• Have a duck's foot forever or constantly make frog noises?
• Never be allowed to wear shoes again or never be allowed to wear socks again?
• Talk to helium air forever or constantly pretend you're a pirate?
• Dreaming of huge beetles every night or always having to walk in slow motion?
• Can you keep your arms stretched out to the side forever or can you just hop?
• Live in a world without pizza or chocolate?
• Have a nose like Pinocchio or ears like Dumbo?
• Be invisible for five minutes every day or read minds for five minutes?
• Run around dressed like a superhero for a month or go to work in your bathing suit every day?
• Always speak backwards or have to repeat every sentence twice?

Interesting “either/or” questions

• Books or films?
• Dogs or cats?
• Pizza or burgers?
• Sweet or salty?
• Summer or winter?
• Morning person or night owl?
• Marvel or DC?
• Beach or mountains?
• Instagram oder TikTok?
• Popcorn or nachos?
• Math or art?
• “Gilmore Girls” oder “Sex and the City”?
• Dancing or singing?
• Video games or board games?
• Rain or shine?
• Coffee or tea?
• Series or films?
• Call or text?
• Chocolate or gummy bears?
• Car or bike?
• Camping or hotel?
• Adventure film or romance film?
• “Harry Potter” or “The Lord of the Rings”?
• Sea or lake?
• Starter or dessert?
• Chocolate or vanilla ice cream?
• Backpack or suitcase?
• Dreamer or realist?
• Ghost train or Ferris wheel?
• Listen to music or make music?
• Be spontaneous or plan everything?
• Snow or rain?
• Run fast or jump long?
• Adventure or safety?
• Speed ​​or endurance?
• Trick or treating?
• Be able to fly or see the future?
• Drawing or pottery?
• Cinema or Netflix?
• Time travel into the past or into the future?
• Singing karaoke or club night?
• Work or cleaning the house?
• Birthday or Christmas?
• Home office or work on site?
• Bake or cook?
• Vampires or werewolves?
• Boat trip or air travel?
• Horror film or comedy?
• A walk in the forest or a stroll through the city?
• In the museum at night or in the amusement park during the day?
• Work independently or in a team?
• Bathtub or shower?
• Playstation oder Xbox?
• Sunrise or sunset?
• Sauna or yoga?
• Night flea market or reading?
• Catwoman or Harley Quinn?
• Breathe underwater or walk through walls?
• Dive into the sea or into space?
• A day in the jungle or on the moon?
• A weekend alone or with the family?
• Bungee jumping or knitting class?
• A year without a cell phone or a year without sports?
• Be able to eat whatever you want without gaining weight or be super strong?
• Lying on the beach or playing water polo?
• Speak all languages ​​or be able to play all musical instruments?
• Be a ninja:kunoichi or pirate?
• Fruit or vegetables?
• Forever young or forever rich?

“Either-or” questions for the (first) date

• Breakfast or dinner?
• Cocktails or beer?
• Traveling spontaneously or planning weeks in advance?
• A walk in the park or through the city?
• Concert or festival?
• Indoor or outdoor activities?
• Coffee house or bar?
• Theater or musical?
• Surprise or solid plans?
• Art museum or boat trip?
• Dancing slowly or not dancing at all?
• Action film or documentary?
• Pasta or pizza?
• Road trip or cruise?
• Warm or cold weather?
• Looking at stars or watching clouds?
• Sitting by the window or in the aisle on the plane?
• A walk on the beach or a hike in the forest?
• Pool or jacuzzi?
• Live music or DJ?
• Rain or snow?
• Learn to dance or play an instrument?
• Vintage-Laden or Designer-Store?
• Plane or train journey?
• Sea or mountains?
• Comedy or magic show?
• Going out smart or casual?
• French fries or salad?
• Talk or listen?
• Breakfast buffet or à la carte?
• Handwritten or digital?
• Adventure park or water park?
• Skip dessert or enjoy three courses?
• Romantic dinner or exciting event?
• Black and white film or modern blockbuster?
• Sushi bar or tapas restaurant?
• Cycling or hiking tour?
• Meditation or yoga?
• Chocolate cake or fruit tart?
• Stand-up comedy or play?
• Sitting around the campfire or relaxing in the whirlpool?
• Bookstore or record store?
• Chatting in a café or sitting by the lake?
• Rafting or sailing?
• Historic place or natural wonder?
• Eat meat or vegetarian?
• Walking arm in arm or holding hands?
• Early bird or night owl?

“Either-or” questions for couples

• Career or family?
• Safety or risk?
• Spontaneity or planning?
• Dream or act?
• Money or luck?
• Love or friendship?
• Romantic gestures or everyday care?
• Live together or separate apartments?
• Children or no children?
• Have an adventure or relax?
• Success at work or personal fulfillment?
• Exciting nightlife or quiet evenings at home?
• Get up early or sleep late together?
• Cooking or eating together?
• Adventure trip or beach vacation?
• Share finances or manage them separately?
• Always experiencing new things or cultivating habits?
• To be young forever or to age gracefully?
• Have a career or travel the world?
• Build a house or rent?
• Have discussions or find compromises?
• Common goals or individual freedoms?
• Support or independence?
• Harmony or passionate discussions?
• Save together or spend money spontaneously?
• Pursue dreams or remain pragmatic?
• Material security or emotional closeness?
• Get married or be happy without marriage?
• Enjoy silence or talk a lot?
• Live in the present or plan for the future?
• Adventurous dates or cozy evenings at home?
• Do sports together or spend time individually?
• Visiting family or spending time together?
• Spend every day together or leave space?
• Long-term goals or short-term joys?
• Long walks or staying comfortably in bed?
• Enjoy every moment or make big plans?
• Romantic surprises or reliable routine?
• Celebrate big or have intimate moments?
• Laughter or deep conversations?
• Optimistic or realistic?
• Overcoming challenges together or solving problems separately?
• Adventure or safety?
• Personal growth or relationship stability?
• Have time for yourself or do everything together?
• Big dreams or small steps?
• Forgive or never forget?
• Intense passion or deep connection?

Extreme “either-or” questions

• Confess a big mistake or keep a lifelong secret?
• Sudden death or long suffering?
• Tell the truth, even if it hurts, or a lie out of compassion?
• Leave someone or stay unhappy forever?
• Reveal your greatest fears or burden someone else with them?
• Being able to predict the death of a loved one or never knowing when it will happen?
• To be all alone in your darkest moments or to be seen by everyone?
• Learn a painful truth or live in blissful ignorance?
• Undo your worst mistake in the past or change the future?
• Betray a friend or be betrayed by a friend?
• Live alone forever or love someone who will never love you back?
• Never be able to tell someone you love the truth again or never be able to lie again?
• Reveal a big secret about yourself or learn a big secret about someone you love?
• Never love or never be loved?

This article was created with text passages from our “Teen Vogue” colleagues from the USA.