As a parent, you should trust your children. With these 5 sentences you can do it. Say them more often to your children.
As a mom and dad, it is important to us that our children grow up with unconditional love, appreciation and trust. These things are extremely important for good parent-child binding.
Building a good bond with his children is not always so easy. Especially in everyday life it can be difficult to do justice to your children.
However, there are 5 sentences that the bond between you as a family can strengthen. We tell you which these are.
#1 No matter what happens, I'm always there for you.
Children need security. And by telling you that we are always there for you, we give them to you. Security is a basic need and should be a matter of course. The statement strengthens the basic trust and thus also the bond between you as a family. It is particularly important for social and emotional development that children feel safe with us.
#2 I think and trust you and always listen to you.
In addition to security, trust is one of the basic needs of children. That is the basis of a safe relationship. When we show our children that we believe and trust them, we will show them that they have a safe starting point in us. This strengthens your self -confidence and can encourage you to get to us in the event of problems and to communicate.
#3 As you are, you are just right.
There is so much in this statement. With this sentence, as parents, you show your children that you love them unconditionally. It does not count what services the child provides. Whether it wrote a bad grade or whether it scored a goal in the last football game. Parents should love their children because of their personality and not because of their success. This strengthens the self -image and self -confidence of your children.
#4 You are not responsible for making me happy.
This statement is about being allowed to be who they really are. They should not meet the expectations of others, but should realize themselves. This not only strengthens self -confidence, but also the relationship between you.
#5 You can change the world with your ideas.
If you tell your children that they can change the world, there is so much behind it. If your children realize that they have an impact on their surroundings, this promotes their trust in their own skills. The statement also strengthens awareness that your own opinion has a meaning. So it can help shape its world responsibly.
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