Parenting: 10 magical phrases that make children strong and confident

Parents want to give their children the best in life. You should be happy, have space and time to develop and discover yourself. So that they grow into confident, intelligent, responsible and empathetic adults.

But did you know that just a few carefully chosen sentences have the power to sustainably strengthen children's self-confidence, empathy and resilience?

You can read about which sentences you should integrate into your everyday life from now on (if you don't already use them) and how they have a positive impact on children's development.

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Why are words so powerful in education?

Studies show that parents' language has a big influence on children. From the speed of language acquisition to behavioral problems in children later in life. Language is an important tool in education.

If you choose the right, encouraging words, they can develop children's emotional and social skills.

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Which sentences have a particularly positive effect?

1. “I love you no matter what.”
   This unconditional love provides children with emotional security that serves as a basis for self-confidence and empathy.
   
2. "I'm proud of you."
   Even small achievements deserve recognition. This teaches children that effort and persistence are valued.
   
3. "You can do it!"
   Believing in yourself is extremely important. This sentence strengthens children's self-efficacy and promotes their willingness to accept challenges and take risks.
   
4. “It’s okay to make mistakes.”
   Children need to know that failure is not the end of the world. They are opportunities to learn and grow.

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5. “How does that make you feel?”
   Acknowledging a child's feelings promotes their emotional intelligence and ability to develop empathy.
   
6. "What do you think about it?"
   Children feel valued when their opinions are taken seriously. This promotes critical thinking and self-esteem.
   
7. "I'm here for you."
   This phrase creates a safety net that encourages children to try new things.
   
8. “You are unique and special.”
   Individuality should be celebrated. This phrase promotes self-acceptance and tolerance towards others.
   
9. "You can say 'no'."
   Personal boundaries are extremely important, especially for later life and mental health. When children learn to communicate their boundaries early on, it ensures healthy self-confidence.
   
10. “Let’s find a solution together.”
    Problem solving as a team effort develops a child's creativity and social skills.

How can the sentences be integrated into everyday life?

The above sentences are not just empty phrases. Rather, we parents should integrate them into our daily language use. The point is not to repeat them mechanically. Of course, they have to fit the situation and, above all, the child's feelings. Because, be careful! Children are amazingly perceptive and quickly recognize whether their parents' words are authentic or not.

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