It doesn't always have to be the long version. Even a quickie can be really hot. You should keep this in mind when choosing a quick number so that you get your money's worth.
Table of contents
- Fast sex: Good reasons why it's great for women
- The best places for a quickie
- Fast sex and the thrill of being in public
- And otherwise?
- Fast sex: A few no-gos
A quickie often only lasts a few minutes - and the fun is over. However, there are good reasons for quick sex. Foreplay and long, hot nights or not – quick sex is a slightly different way to have fun, and it has to be easy every now and then. A bit wild and animalistic. Don't think and celebrate, just do it.
A thought that definitely appeals to many women. Basic requirement: You really feel like it, right now and right away. What you want at this moment is not the long night with smooching, foreplay, penetration, positions A, B and C and delayed orgasm, but simply quick and dirty. Just let the pig out. Be uninhibited. birds.
Second requirement for having fun with a quickie: You are open enough to tell your partner that you are in the mood for quick sex. Don't worry: Most people love sex when someone knows what they want and takes the initiative. So grab your loved one and signal: now and here, please!
The best thing to do is to surprise him/her right in the perfect place with your hot quickie plan. Be it at home at the kitchen table, in the evening on the sofa or in the changing room while shopping.
At the latest when the other person notices that you are practically not wearing any underwear, the penny will drop pretty quickly for him or her. Tip: So that he can have a few warm thoughts beforehand, arrange to meet via hot text message and order him to the location of your choice. And urgently!
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Fast sex: Good reasons why it's great for women
1. It doesn't take long, you have fun, but you also still have time for other things that are on your mind. Especially in times of stress, quick sex relieves tension in no time and clears your head without having to plan hours for it. Sometimes the perfect solution!
2. It's fun to grab the man or woman of your choice and whisper in his or her ear, in dirty talk style, what you would like to have right now. Feels really good.
3. Often the desire simply overcomes you. Even in places that would be absolutely unsuitable for extended sex play. Then you just have to be inventive. Here, quick sex is the perfect choice if you don't want to miss out on the fun entirely.
4. A quickie brings a breath of fresh air into your love life because it is simply different than 'normal' sex in bed.
5. Because we women also know what we want and get it. Good this way!
6. If you think we women can't have sex without foreplay: you can also have foreplay during a quickie. By getting excited about each other beforehand via text messages or calls. The foreplay for the quickie takes place in the head - then, despite the short time, the orgasm also works!
7. Why fast sex is still so awesome? Because it's great to feel wanted. For both.
The best places for a quickie
Wherever you feel like it: If you are careful and don't offend anyone with your action, the variety of places for a quickie is almost unlimited. Of course there are various classics that are available. Firstly, the locations where you don't have to worry about unwanted spectators: at home.
No matter whether on the sofa, on the kitchen table, on the washing machine or just behind the front door when you come home: a quickie is always possible here. Even 'normal' in bed is absolutely fine. After all, this is about quick and dirty and not about not doing it between the sheets under any circumstances.
The quick number on the balcony and loggia is also nice. The plus: Here you have the 'outside feeling', but ideally without having to fear too many looks.
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Fast sex and the thrill of being in public
Let's move on to point two: the places where you could be discovered during a quickie. This isn't for everyone and you run the risk of offending other people.
But for everyone who really wants it, here are a few quickie classics: in the back row at the cinema in the evening. Preferably in an action film where there is always a lot of noise. And ideally in a film that no one but you wants to see. So you are undisturbed.
Classic number two for quick sex is the changing room while shopping. It's best to choose a large department store and not the small boutique around the corner with two cubicles. Lockable changing rooms would also be an advantage. And you should really be quick if there are other people waiting in front of you, otherwise you won't make any friends.
Alternative public places for a quickie are the cubicles in the swimming pool. If you like culture, the toilets in the theater or museum, the elevator or the parking garage deck at the top.
So that you don't become a cause of public nuisance (please don't, no one wants to see that and that can be quite expensive), you should always be careful. In other words: choose the corner in the last row in the cinema, at the top of the parking deck in the car park and only in the elevator if you are in a high-rise building and have at least 20 floors. Nobody needs too much thrill.
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And otherwise?
Of course, there is also the faction of outdoor fanatics who like to do it in romantic places. On the beach, for example, a quickie is more than popular. The sand gets in the way from time to time, but afterwards they can both jump into the sea and cool off. The sound of the sea included. Or you can choose a secluded high seat - only for those with a head for heights - or a cornfield where you can't even see the two of you because of all the ears of grain.
Many people also swear by the airplane toilet. But we advocate letting that go. The queue in front will thank you. You really have to have some nerve for this, after all, this quirk is also well known to the stewardesses, and they watch like a hound. Not to mention the lack of freedom of movement.
No-go: Fast sex really doesn't have to be in the office. Or do you want to risk your job for five minutes of fun? You should also cross the ever-popular swimming pool off your quickie list. That's not really nice to the other bathers. If you have your own pool, that's something different. Then this would be a great place for a quickie...
Fast sex: A few no-gos
- When in doubt, err on the side of caution. In other words: not without rubber!
- No complicated pantsuits, overalls, jumpsuits or bodysuits. Pantyhose are also completely unsuitable for quickies. A skirt or dress with a thong or simply nothing underneath is best.
- Don't be selfish, but also make sure that your partner gets his or her money's worth.
- Don't use places for a quickie where you'll cause distress to other people, such as the toilet if it's the only one. Anyone who has ever stood here before knows what it feels like.
- Make sure that you do not disturb those around you in public places with your short number. Keep your private fun to yourself as much as possible.
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