Are you more of a cat or a-Person? After all, dogs are said to be “man’s best friend” and incredibly loyal. Cats, on the other hand, are said to be more independent and distant.
Anyone who owns a house cat will shake their head at this statement. Because as I know as a cat mom of two, cats can also be super affectionate and show their love in their own, special way. For example, while my tabby likes to give headbutts and make himself comfortable on my lap while purring, my ginger shows his love by letting me scratch his belly.
So if you are unsure whether your cat really likes you: Here are 10 clear signs that prove that your cat loves you.
1. She purrs when she's with you
Cats usually purr when they are comfortable and relaxing. So when your cat lies next to you or on top of you, looks at you and purrs, it means: “I feel comfortable and safe with you.”
But purring can also have other meanings. Scientists have discovered that the vibrations of purring can have healing effects. With a frequency of 25 to 150 Hertz, purring supports the healing process of injuries, relaxes the muscles and reduces stress. So when your cat purrs, it not only shows affection, but it can also calm itself and even you.
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2. She licks you and nibbles on you gently
When your cat starts licking you, it's a sign of deep affection. Cats use licking to bond - just like they would with other cats they like. In nature, cats groom each other to express closeness and trust. So when your cat licks your hand, your face, or even your hair, it means, “You’re part of my family.”
Gentle nibbling is also part of this behavior. These little love bites are completely harmless and show that she is playful with you - just as she would with other cats. Important: If the biting becomes too hard, it could be a sign that she is becoming cocky or perhaps a little excited. Then it helps to give her a little break.
3. She brings you gifts
In the wild, cats bring food to their family to ensure survival. By bringing you a gift, your cat is showing that she considers you part of her “pack.” She cares for you and shares with you what she finds valuable - even if it is a leaf or (unfortunately) a small prey animal.
4. She shows you her stomach
A cat's stomach is its most vulnerable place. In nature, cats would never show their belly unless they are 100% sure they won't be attacked. When your cat rolls on its back in front of you and presents you with its soft belly, it means, “I trust you completely.”
But be careful: not every cat likes to be stroked on the stomach. Sometimes it's enough to just enjoy the moment without touching her - this respects her boundaries and strengthens the bond.
5. She follows you wherever you go
Cats are actually independent creatures, but they want to be close to the people they love. If she follows you everywhere, it shows, “I want to be with you because you are important to me.”
6. She sleeps near you
For cats, sleep is a moment of complete vulnerability. In the wild, they look for hidden and safe places to sleep and protect themselves from enemies. However, when your cat decides to sleep right next to you - or even on top of you - it shows absolute trust.
She sees you as her safe haven and knows not to be afraid around you. So you play an important role in your cat's life.
7. She rubs her head on you
The so-called “giving head” is one of the clearest signs of affection. This involves your cat rubbing its forehead, cheeks or head against your body. This is not only to mark you with their scent, but also to build bonding.
In the cat world, animals express their belonging by rubbing their heads. For you this means: You are her favorite person!
8. She squints her eyes when she looks at you
A slow blink is like a small confession of love in the cat world. If your cat looks at you with half-closed eyes and appears relaxed, it signals trust and affection.
This is because cats in the wild would never blink if they felt in danger. Blinking slowly means, "I feel safe." You can even return this behavior by blinking slowly as well - this will strengthen your bond.
9. She kneads you with her paws
This behavior, also known as “milk kicking,” dates back to the cat’s early childhood. Kittens kick their mother's stomach to stimulate the flow of milk. When adult cats exhibit this behavior, it means they feel just as safe with you as they do with their mother.
Kneading is also a way for cats to relieve stress and find relaxation. If they include you in this, it is a great sign of love - even if it can sometimes be a little prickly with their little claws.
10. She greets you with her tail raised
A cat that greets you with an upright tail clearly shows that it is happy to see you. In the cat world, the raised tail is a sign of friendship, trust and affection.
Especially if the tip of the tail is slightly curved, your cat is saying: "I'm happy to see you." This behavior shows that she feels comfortable with you and considers you part of her family. Notice if she maybe even strokes your legs - this reinforces the message: "I missed you!"
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