The relationship between a mom and her child begins well before the day of birth. Because over 40 weeks of pregnancy both grow together to a certain extent. This is exactly what makes the connection so special.
The mutual relationship between a mother and her child begins on the day of birth. The keyword here is called 'bonding'. Close physical contact, the maternal fragrance, your heartbeat, body heat, all the things are already familiar to the newborn from the womb and it feels safe and safe. It knows intuitively who his mom is. Even a baby's first weeks of life are the foundation for good mother-child binding.
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Although physical contact, love and closeness remains an important part of a good mother-child bond the older the child becomes, but they are not the sole carrier. Rather, it is an interaction between love, respect, recognition, but also rules, for example, that let the connection between mother and child, but of course also between father and child, strengthen and grow.
But what are clear signs for good mother-child binding? We want to explain that.
Feelings are not hidden from mom
If the mother-child binding is correct, children can (primarily) be at home as they are. This includes that you can let your feelings run wild without having to be afraid of mums (and dad). It is laughed and cried, romped and raged, children who feel comfortable and safe at home.
As exhausting, cuddly tests flying through the children's room, cuddly toys and grinders can be over the little things of the child, it shows that your child feels so safe and safe with you that it can let everything that suits him on the heart.
A wide range of feelings is therefore a sign of good mother-child binding.
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Problems are addressed
It is a sign of a very good mother-child relationship if your offspring turns to problems and worries. Even if it really crap. That it is looking for advice from you shows that you trust it. That it is not afraid to admit mistakes and that it promises real help from you.
If children come to puberty, they often scrap themselves away from their parents. Friends very often come to the center in this phase of life and become closer to them for them than their own parents. So that does not have to mean that your bond is lost. As a parents, however, you can still let your child know that you are always there, should it have problems.
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You can apologize to each other
No one is infallible. To be able to admit mistakes and to be able to apologize for it is part of life. Children have to learn that. It is best to go ahead with a good example and apologize to them if something has not run as planned or if you have lost your patience.
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Mutual respect for the feelings and the opinion of each other are a sign of good mother-child binding.
A safe harbor and first point of contact
Mama is very often unbeatable, especially when it comes to toddler. No matter what your child needs or wants, the first point of contact will very often be. Even beyond the toddler age, children very often address their wishes to the mother.
As exhausting as your child calls you, even though dad is located right next to him, it testifies to your child's good bond. It just dares to do everything best.
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Mom is not the best friend
Even if we show us television series that it can work very well when mom and child are best friends, in real life it is not desirable. Children really don't have to know everything about their parents, because they cannot deal with everything. Rather, they want and should be managed by their parents.
In return, parents do not have to know everything about their child. It should develop into an independent person, follow his wishes and dreams and be able to trust his skills and all of this in a safe environment that the parents give him.
If the mother and child can entrust themselves a lot, it is not a problem for both parties not to know anything because you trust each other, then it also testifies to a good mother-child bond.
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Important note at the end:The information and tips in this article are only suggestions. Every child is different and reacts in its own way. It is therefore important that you go into your child and find out which way is the best for you.
