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In advance in the video: With these tips your sex will be even better
The carousel of thoughts can quickly spoil your mood during sex. But men actually don't care about many things in bed.
Just let it go and enjoy: What sounds so simple is actually not that easy for many people. “Do I look good?” or “Does he even like that?” – one way or another the carousel of thoughts starts and the mood quickly plummets.
In fact, there are some things that men absolutely don't care about in bed. You can safely delete these three points from your mental chaos. Who knows – maybe this will help you clear your head and just enjoy the moment.
1. Unshaved legs
Unshaven or stubbly legs? For some women, this is already an obstacle to going to bed with someone. But most men really don't care about stubble and hair and let's be honest, that's no reason to put off desire! And women don't really care whether the person they're talking to is perfectly trimmed and shaved. There are clearly more important things!
2. Tummy, Foodbaby and Co.
Far too many of us struggle with how we look, especially when we're naked. But you don't need to worry, because men don't care about a full stomach, cellulite, etc. during sex. They definitely don't perceive these things the way you do.
That's why you shouldn't worry and just enjoy your time. Ask yourself: Do you pay attention to things like this in the heat of the moment? Certainly not.
3. No sexy lingerie
It doesn't always have to be sexy underwear. Of course, it's nice to get all dressed up only to then rip your clothes off, but even if you're wearing normal underwear, that's no reason to worry.
Men also like things to be spontaneous and “normal” without any fuss. So enjoy the moment as it comes and don't worry too much about what you have underneath or whether the bra matches the panties. If you're keen on someone, you probably don't pay attention to what they're wearing underneath.
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