Do you know those people who just constantly wallow in self-pity? We'll tell you three zodiac signs that share this trait.
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Life can sometimes be very unfair. Some things don't work out the way we would like, and sometimes fate can be really bad.
But there are people who turn every crisis, no matter how small, into the biggest catastrophe. They believe the whole world is against them and everything is incredibly bad. Then, instead of trying to make the best of it, they bubble with negativity and wallow in self-pity. All positive energy is gone and all self-love is gone.
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Whether you tend to complain a lot and often wallow in self-pity may have something to do with your zodiac sign. Here are three zodiac signs that are predestined for this.
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Place #1: Cancer
It probably won't surprise anyone that Cancer tops the ranking of the most self-pitying zodiac signs. Cancers are highly sensitive and therefore perceive every negative vibration, no matter how small. If a mishap happens to them, they fall into pessimism.
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Another big problem: People under the zodiac sign Cancer are very reluctant to be helped. You would prefer to do everything yourself. Cancers find it incredibly difficult to ask others for help or support. And this leads to even more worries being placed on their shoulders and the Cancer ends up feeling even more alone. In these moments he wants to crawl back into his shell and feel sorry for himself.
Place #2: Pisces
Pisces also love to feel sorry for themselves from time to time. They are said to be very impressionable and to “go with the flow” wherever they go. If a negative event happens in their environment, they immediately get involved and relate everything to themselves. When their friends say everything is really stupid, they suddenly feel that way too, without having any personal reason. And then the fish not only feels sorry for his friends, but also for himself.
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Like Cancer, Pisces are very sensitive. Coupled with their self-pity, this can reach quite critical proportions. And that's a shame, because fish are actually usually happy. You should put aside your sentimental ways every now and then and try to see all the positive things in your life. Because there is usually a lot of that in the life of the fish.
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Place #3: Libra
Libra is actually considered a very balanced zodiac sign that needs harmony. And that's true, which is why you wouldn't necessarily expect them to be on the list of self-pity zodiac signs. However, Libra can quickly feel left alone by the world. Especially when they have to make decisions, they need the courage and encouragement of those around them.
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If Libras don't get the love and attention they need, they can become obnoxious and end up feeling sorry for themselves. Libras should therefore try not to bury their heads in the sand so quickly if something doesn't go their way. They should rather work on their self-love and self-confidence so that in the future they will no longer be so dependent on the opinions and actions of those around them. And that would make a lot of things in their lives easier.
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The bad qualities of the 12 zodiac signs
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The negative characteristics of the zodiac sign Aries
Aries (March 21 – April 20)
Those born in Aries are under the influence of Mars, the planet of war. This not only has a positive effect on strong will, but in addition to the typical stubbornness, it also has other downsides.
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Aries are aggressive and egomaniacal
The negative character traits of Aries:
– ignorant
– hot-tempered
– reckless
– egocentric
- impatient
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Aries is primarily interested in themselves
This is how the typical Aries ticks in the worst case scenario:
Aries are egomaniacs despite themselves. They are simply so busy with themselves that they quickly lose sight of the feelings of those around them. They often feel unfairly betrayed because they don't notice that friends are offended by their ignorant nature and turn away.
The small world of those born in Aries revolves primarily around themselves. If someone dares to object or even criticize them, they like to use it as an opportunity to argue and duel. They can become extremely loud.
Rams have yet to shed their horns and are real philanderers. They don't let anything go wrong and don't think too much of loyalty. When they get bored or their partner tires them out with obligations, they prefer to leave and devote themselves to other projects. Not very nice.
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The negative qualities of the Taurus zodiac sign
Taurus (April 21 – May 20)
Taurus are influenced by Venus and therefore have a preference for everything beautiful. This may be positively expressed in a fine sense of art and culture, but on the other hand, it also quickly makes Taurus-born people materialistic and envious.
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Taurus are materialistic and lazy
The negative character traits of Taurus:
– possessive
- stingy
- jealous
– intolerant
– sluggish
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Taurus-born people are greedy
This is how the typical Taurus works in the worst case scenario:
Worst case, the bull embodies four of the seven deadly sins: laziness, envy, greed and gluttony. You could be looking at a self-indulgent luxury addict who keeps accumulating more and more things that he doesn't actually need to live. Taurus-born people like to compare their own achievements with those of others: those who have more are envied and hostile.
On the other hand, Taurus people often rest on their laurels. They become stodgy and stingy because they don't want others to take advantage of them - even if only in their heads. This makes them suspicious and dangerous.
In addition, Taurus often have problems with tolerating their fellow human beings. Those who do not see material possessions or the classic family image with a house, children and dog as the meaning of life are viewed with suspicion by the conservative Taurus.
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The negative qualities of the zodiac sign Gemini
Gemini (May 21 – June 21)
Those born under Gemini are often accused of having two faces. One side often knows nothing about the other. This makes the zodiac sign so flexible and agile, but also makes Gemini appear ambivalent and even schizophrenic. And that's where the fun clearly ends.
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Gemini is flighty and superficial
The negative character traits of Gemini:
- torn
– unreliable
- nervous
– scattered
- superficial
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Gemini doesn't know what they want
This is how the typical Gemini works in the worst case scenario:
The Gemini doesn't know exactly what he wants. He is always stressed because he always thinks he is missing something or that he can find something better somewhere. And that is exactly what makes it extremely vulnerable to manipulation from outside.
The only thing you can really rely on when it comes to people born with Gemini is that you can't rely on them. Lies are easy for them, but rarely with malicious intent. The Gemini simply lacks the calculation for this. They mean promises made seriously at that moment, but the moment flies by very quickly.
Geminis are also extremely forgetful and although they are so communicative, they never seem to really listen. Most of the time, their minds are in several places at the same time. They would prefer to do everything at once, but this means that they perform their many tasks more poorly than they can.
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Be happy & self-love: book tip
Do you often find yourself sinking into self-pity? Then we can recommend a great book that will help you to love yourself and be happier. It may sound a bit strange at first, but it's not for nothing that the book is rated very well on Amazon.
The book is intended to guide you towards more mindfulness, calmness and self-love in everyday life, including proven NLP techniques for more clarity and self-confidence. Many readers report in the comments that the book actually helped them to be happy and that they have since found happiness in small things and in themselves. A must-read for all people who occasionally bury their head in the sand!
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Note at the end:We have selected the zodiac signs based on their typical (and well-known) character traits. Of course, all of this should be viewed with a certain amount of tongue in cheek - after all, even the stars can be wrong sometimes. There are certainly many of the zodiac signs listed who are full of positive energy.
